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The Correct Oral Sex Techniques

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Oral sex may be one of the best things we have in sex. Learning the right oral sex techniques “is a must” for any man who wants to be a good lover. I would say is one of my favorite things to do. I think is sensual, sexy, visually arousing and a lot of fun to give and to receive.

In this article I want to give you some tips on how to give extraordinary oral sex with the correct oral sex techniques to your woman. For that I need you to reset your mind. We will start from zero.

I am sure you do many things right already, but believe me that I have heard many girls complain about receiving lousy oral sex most of the time. It’s very common and sad.

Good oral sex will lead to probably the most powerful clitoris orgasms a woman can have, comparable to the intensity of a vaginal orgasm. learning the correct oral sex stimulation skills  is imperative for any good lover.

Remember that the clitoris has over 8.000 nerve endings concentrated in a little tiny button. The clitoris and the anus are the sexual areas with the most nerve endings. That is why anal orgasms are also very intense orgasms as well.

Another regular complain is that “my man does not like to give oral sex…” This really drives me mad, as I am sure those same guys LOVE to receive oral sex from their women. It does not work like that, it has to go both ways! It’s not right!

So let me give you some tips to master oral sex:

1. To Give Good Oral Sex Stop Watching Porn

Yes, you read that right. If you really want to give good oral sex and the correct oral sex techniques…you need to stop watching porn right now! I have nothing against porn, I think it is a great entertainment and works good for visual arousal and masturbation purposes or foreplay games. But that’s it!

Consequently, porn is not a good source to learn anything about sex! The people performing in porn scenes are actors, they act, and what they do is focused for your visual arousal. The vast majority of the female moans and orgasms you hear and see are fake, especially the squirting orgasms.

In terms of oral sex techniques, it gets even worst. In porn you will see that 99% of the guys flick their tongue at the clitoris really fast and hard.

Well, this is the incorrect way to give oral sex to a woman, and most of the guys do it exactly like that to their woman, because it is what they have seen in movies.

The reason why they flick their tongue is because it is a movie, and what gets you aroused is seeing the tongue moving fast on the clitoris. Everything is focused to your visual excitement. I will tell you how to do it correct below…

2. Take a Shower Before You Give A Girl Oral 

This may sound a bit obvious, but this is very important, as you both want to feel free and safe to explore any single spot in the genital area without any surprises.

It must be very clean and in perfect conditions. All female genitals smell very good and nice if they are clean, any other belief is just a myth. Take the shower together and wash each other, it is a great and sexy foreplay game as well!

3. How To Go Down On A Girl 

Ok, we have discarded the flicking of the tongue in the first point. Please stop doing it! Now I want to explain you how to give oral sex correctly in 9 simple steps:


Open your mouth if like you were going to eat something.


Put your tongue out and let it rest in the lower lip (like when you are eating ice-cream)


Put your lips around the genital area surrounding the clitoris. The flat upper part of tongue should fall directly on the clitoris hood (which covers the clitoris head).


Do not use the tip of your tongue. Use the meaty part of it and do not make it hard. Leave the tongue relaxed and smooth.


Don’t pull the clitoris hood up and expose the clitoris head to the tongue. The clitoris is very sensitive and you need to arouse it before any direct stimulation. Actually, most women do not like direct clitoris stimulation. The pressure you put with your tongue on the clitoris is  what is important, and is more than enough to make her feel great pleasure.


Start moving the tongue however you like; do circles, write letters, move side to side. Anything is fine, just do it with rhythm, with soft   pressure and very slow to start.


Honestly I never pull up the hood of the clit, unless she asks me to do it. Most girls never masturbate touching directly on the clitoris. Then place the fingers on top of the hood and press. You can try to expose the clit and see how your woman reacts, I have seen women that like it (always once they are aroused).


After a while you can start doing the movements faster and with more pressure as the excitement builds up.


VERY IMPORTANT. When you feel that she is about to orgasm DON’T change the rhythm or whatever movement you are doing. It can make her lose the momentum and maybe will not come back again.

4. Best Positions For Oral Sex

In terms of postures for oral sex, it is of course up to your preferences and especially what she likes best. You do this for her pleasure mostly. Therefore, anything is correct here if she likes it.

There are basically 2 postures to give oral sex to a woman. From my experience the vast majority of women like to receive oral sex lying on their back. Seems like it is easier for them to orgasm like that. So assuming she is lying on her back, these are the postures:

Place your head and your body between her legs: In this posture you will be moving your tongue upwards from the vagina towards her clitoris. This means that the clitoris will be more exposed as you will be lifting the hood up with your tongue. In this position you could also mix with simultaneous basic g-spot stimulation and maybe make her ejaculate.

Place yourself on top of her in the 69 position: We are not doing the 69, your body can be on her side and your head between her legs. In this posture you will be moving your tongue downwards (from the clitoris towards the vagina).

Here the hood will not be lifted up and the clitoris will not be directly exposed. This is the posture I use more as girls love it, but just see what she likes best and do it!

This is for the guys:

Girls love and adore oral sex and it is a type of orgasm that will drive them crazy. If you expect to receive oral sex because you love it, you should understand that she loves it too, and is also her right to receive it. Just learn to enjoy it if you don’t like to do it…

In conclusion, if you really want your woman to be satisfied and happy in bed, you must give her good oral sex or something will be missing. It will give you a great advantage over many other guys that just don’t know how to do it correctly.

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